The good news is that I’ve not gone insane. Or maybe I did and I’ve just brought you all along with me for the ride.
I’m pretty sure it is the former though.
OK, with seven opinions in, I am distilling that “Love” is a very powerful thing that can make people do some very out-of-the-ordinary things. But we all already knew this. I am going to have to disagree with Robb’s opinion in that I do not believe that “Apathy” is not the opposite of “Love”. In my opinion, that would still be “Hate”. “Apathy” is the exact middle between the two. The Wife is of the same opinion as Robb, and even with our discussions, I cannot picture it.
Breaking the opinions down further, I get this: “Love” is something people will die for to keep alive, whether it be a person or an idea. If someone or something matters so much that you are willing to go to wild and extraordinary lengths to keep it in existence, you honestly have to say that you “Love” it.
This is what I have always seen “Love” as, though to be honest, the “die for” angle was as far as my mind had been able to go with it. The words of others, like those in the comments yesterday, were always just fluffy filler that I was unable to add on because I’m just not geared that way. I’m a very black and white kind of guy anyway, so the shades of gray on any topic have always been pretty much lost on me.
A good comparison point would be the term “Racist”. Most folks only see/use the pejorative use of that term. I really have a hard time with that, just ask the wife. I’ve popped that word out in conversations with new acquaintances and gotten some very cross looks until she straightens folks out about how I give/take things very literally. She is a walking Berlitz guide to me. I can usually translate incoming, but the outgoing just takes too long and people get tired of my pauses before i speak. Yes, I am very terrible at public speaking, which is why I have a blog (with an “edit” button”) and why it takes me so long to type up a post.
David can also probably tell you some of my quirks like that after being stuck in a vehicle with me both to and from Boomershoot earlier this year.
Now, to “Hate”. Feel free to tell me your opinions here as well.
“Hate”, being the opposite of “Love”, which we’ve concluded is something we’d die for, is something you would take overwhelming physical action, or even kill, to put an end to and/or stop.
I don’t care if it is an idea, a person (or group of persons) or an object; what ever you want to tie it to, if you say to me that you “Hate” something, you’d better be out to put it down. Or down to put it out. Otherwise, you don’t actually “Hate” it, you just really don’t like it. It pisses you off, but not enough for you to do anything more than bitch about it.
I have hated things in the past (Soviets, certain classes of criminals, etc), but the wife doesn’t let me get away with that any more (which is probably a good thing), so now I’m just “holding them in deep disdain”. Who knows if I’ll ever “Hate” again in the future, though I see it as inevitable. As an aside for any who have now seen inside my head and know of my love of firearms and are now concerned, I have never once connected “Hatred” with a firearm. Most likely because the sheer need to expel the energy behind the hatred could not be satisfied with the pull of my index finger.
So, any thoughts.